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- Okay, you have tried giving them two alternatives and it did not work this time.....we then have to leave the rational side, we have to change the clients right hemispheric image...which is where most real change occurs anyway! Speech may have had its origin in the language of action. Commands are man's most archaic language forms. Willing (wishing) doesn't necessarily mean wanting all the consequences that may come with it. Eg. This I didn't want or expect! If you wish to see. Learn how to act! The experience of attending and listening to an orchestra cannot be contained in words. Yet if they do something (listen) the experience tells them. Yet the concept of democracy of informed democracy is difficult to put into words. Behavior prescriptions range from double binds to reframing and the illusions of alternatives. Every case will be different. Theory can stop needed inventiveness and flexibility. Eg hubby keeps talking when you ask wifey a question and she needs time to consider it, ask him to hold a pencil to his lips and when you ask wifey a question let him notice how his lips quiver because he finds it hard to control himself. (Good intervention)
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